Worried that parenthood means your love life has to suffer?
WORRY NO MORE!
INTRODUCING
Reduce conflict, increase connection and Baby Proof your Relationship while navigating new parenthood in only 6 weeks!
For new and expecting parents who want love, companionship and support without all the nagging, fighting and hurt feelings.
Right now you're desperate to feel loved BUT you:
Feel overwhelmed
Can't find time to connect
Miss the partner you once had
Have too many differences in your parenting approach
Are too full of resentment
Feel like you spent your whole life searching for your special partner only to lose them once you became parents
I've developed an approach that allows you to re-kindle that spark and re-establish that you are on the same team and in this together.
In only 60 minutes a week you will be feeling more connected, more confident to have those difficult talks and you will re-discover the happiness you once had in your relationship.
YOU WILL LEARN EXACTLY HOW TO:
Talk so they will listen
Create a system so you're not doing all the work alone
How to move through your resentment and master the art of forgiveness
Discover the key to creating your very own successful love relationship
Navigate the need for sex and intimacy without the pressure to perform
And finally, you will create a foundation of connection to ensure you keep the peace despite the obstacles that new parenthood and raising children will throw at you.
THERE IS AN EASIER WAY
Even if your partner has given up
Even if you are the only one wanting change
Even if you feel alone and hopeless
Even if you feel fixing your relationship is too much work
Even if you don't have time or resource to make grand gestures
WILL THIS WORK FOR ME?
I have designed Baby Proof Relationship with you in mind.
Parenting newborns, infants and toddlers is a unique phase of life and presents special challenges to your relationship.
You don't have hours of uninterrupted time to talk things out
You can't always arrange weekly date nights with a babysitter
You need unique tools to get through this stage of life.
Students of Baby Proof Relationship Include:
Expecting Parents
Postpartum Couples
Parents of Multiple Children
LGBTQ+ Couples
Married
Common Law
Long Term Relationships
The Old Way
You can put your relationship last and wait to address your issues until the kids are older. You risk that when this time finally comes it's too late and there is too much distance and pain.
The Baby Proof Way
You can be proactive and choose that your love relationship is the foundation that your family is built on. Give yourself and your children the gift of healthy, strong relationships for life.
I'm Rebecca Johnston, a postpartum relationship coach and therapist for over a decade. As a step-parent, mother to three and wife I had to learn the hard way how to prioritize my marriage. In those early years of parenthood, I was overwhelmed by postpartum depression and anxiety and focused on the pain my partner was causing me by not showing up the way I needed him.
What worked pre-baby, when we had the luxury of time and giving each other our full attention was no longer an option for us. That's when I began researching and creating what is now the Baby Proof Relationship Masterclass.
In my therapy practice, I began to notice how significant a positive, connected intimate relationship was to a positive postpartum experience.
Many of my clients would spend hours wanting to learn new tools to know how to connect more openly with their spouses, despite having no time. They were holding resentment that the other person had it "easier". None of them felt seen or heard.
I realized I was giving out the same tools to many of these couples and would love to give them to you.
I know you are scared.
Scared that you are losing your partner and that you will be left running the household and raising your child(ren) alone. Scared that the cracks you see in your relationship today will grow into giant rifts a few years from now.
This distance, pain and hurt doesn't have to be forever.
Discover what kind of parent you are and how this fits with your partner's expectations
Transform your daily struggles of work division into teamwork and support using each other's strengths
Avoid becoming roommates and learn how to prioritize your intimate connections, and not just in the bedroom!
How much is your relationship worth?
For only $197 you can reclaim your relationship in 6 weeks.
Still Unsure?
Frequently Asked Questions
Do we both need to do the class? My partner doesn't seem interested in making changes.
No worries. I've designed the action activities to be "pick your own adventure style". There will be a 15-30 minute action activity each week to pick from based on your personal interests, comfort level and if you are doing the class with or without your partner.
Change also ALWAYS starts at the individual level. As you go through the lessons and begin to change how you move within your relationship, you're partner will notice the change. The best way to begin change is to role model it for the other person.
We don't have 60 minutes a week to sit and learn! Can it be less?
Life is busy, I get it. Each weekly lesson is split into two parts.
First, a learning component of 20-45 minutes. This can be done with video for you visual learners or audio if you don't have time to sit and learn. You can listen while driving, doing dishes or feeding your baby!
The second part includes action activities that can be done later in the week, when you have 5,10 or 20 minutes to work on them.
I need to talk with my partner before I make a purchase. How do I bring it up?
Odds are, you both are unhappy with how your relationship has been lately.
Pick a time when tensions are low, so not mid-argument about who is doing more house work. Set a specific amount of time, "Hey, can we talk for 5-10 minutes?"
Finally, focus on the change you want to make. It's easier to move towards a positive goal than away from a negative experience. For example, "I really miss how we used to be and would like to invest in our relationship more". I've got an entire lesson on how to start and navigate tough conversations and have priced the course at less than 2 therapy sessions to keep it attainable. I promise, it's way cheaper than a divorce would be!